My brother understood music better. He could create it. Aleks didn't really invite us to listen to him play. Piano isn't a quiet instrument, so we'd hear him practice, but he didn't call attention to himself. We'd just turn the television louder or close a door when he was at the keys. One Mother's Day, he tiptoed to my parents' bedroom door and opened it. He quietly skulked down the stairs and began to play a song he had composed for our mom. That morning we were awoken to the tinkles of a beautiful melody, new to our ears.
After that debut, I would sometimes lay under the baby grand while he played. I'd hum along to his compositions that I had come to know well. I'd ask him to play certain ones, as if he were a jukebox spinning my faves. I missed my brother and his music desperately when he went away to college. I ended up at a nearby school, so sometimes I'd go to his dorm and ask him to play for me. I'd assume the position under that baby grand, and it helped with my homesickness.
Fast forward nearly thirty years, marriages, kids, careers, career changes, and my every-once-in-a-while nagging that he should record his music. (I wasn't the only one nudging) I didn't want his talent to go dormant under the dictates of reality. I was so very pleasantly surprised when Aleks told me he had done it! He had recorded! He asked if I would take some photographs for his new collection. Um, yea! That was an easy decision. It's with a huge side of pride that I share a few snaps from our very special photo session.
You can find his collection "since feeling is first" by looking at his website here: AleksasMitrius.com
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Pennsylvania is so beautiful with the rolling hills and lush greenness. I was awestruck driving in. Naturally, I had to include a touch of this in a photo background. This kid is going places! He's smart and talented. He has a generational inclination toward theatre (is it genetic?) and is eager for his senior production of Mama Mia! I'm so glad his grandmother will now be in town to catch the performances!
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LAF Lines Photography was born in 2008 when a few really encouraging people suggested I ought to do "something" with my photography. I was going to wait until my youngest was in kindergarten, but there was enough interest to start a couple of years sooner.
My first challenge was coming up with the name for my business. I didn't want to use my name, because that didn't mean anything. I'm not Ansel Adams or Annie Leibowitz. Luckily, my initials are L.A.F. and laughing happens to be my favorite thing to do. I'm super into life, and living it boldly and proudly. Laugh lines are not something that need to be removed from one's face, they ought to be celebrated, because it means that you were here. So LAF Lines came to be, the perfect name for my new company.
We had a spare room in the basement of my ranch house that I dedicated as my office. I grew my business cautiously, only taking on the types of jobs that I felt that I could do well. I didn't do weddings for a while. I spent a couple of seasons working as a photographer's assistant while Elizabeth Walker Photography was booming, learning all that I could about how to carry myself, what equipment to use, how to deal with clients, etc.
My business grew each year, thus allowing me to move into a studio space in the Blake Building in downtown Jackson. I kept true to my philosophy of embracing life, capturing people as they are, and offering a professional service with rigid post-production timelines so that my clients knew exactly what to expect from me. I got to travel to San Francisco,
Chicago, Traverse City, and Florida, to pursue jobs with clients who really believed in me. Besides the standard at-home uses, my images have been on the backs of books, used for obituaries, featured in a poetry book, used in brochures, on websites, on billboards, on business cards, on countless holiday and graduation cards, on restaurant walls, shown on TV, and printed in magazines. I even got to photograph the then Vice President of the United States Joe Biden, and separately SLOTUS, Dr. Jill Biden in 2012.
In 2019, after my family had moved to a larger house, I decided to move LAF Lines out of the Blake Building and bring home my equipment since there was ample space. I was pretty sad about the decision, and I remember thinking to myself, "I don't know why this is the right move, but the answer will reveal itself." In March of 2020, and for months after, I was so thankful not to have the expenses associated with my studio space. COVID destroyed a lot of social norms, people, and families. It certainly took the wind out of my sails. I shifted focus to making sure my family was grounded, and then we got our own bad news. Photography took a back burner in my life.
As my youngest has now gone through all the grades, I figured it was time for me to step out for myself. I started a new job in the fall of 2022. I'm a teacher's assistant at the Kit Young Young Adult Program here in Jackson. It is the coolest job with the coolest population. It checks so many boxes and fills my proverbial bucket. I have the traditional school schedule, so my summers will be open to continue photographing. But, as I've not done any marketing for LAF Lines, I also recognize that that might not happen. And I'm entirely at peace.
I know I have a few shoots coming up that are close to home and close to my heart. Over the years, I have had so many people say "I would love to hire you" only to never work with them. And I've wondered if I should have pursued them more? But then I never wanted to be seen as an ever-salesperson who is constantly encouraging people to buy. I figured people could change their minds. Too passive? I'm sorry if you were ever waiting for me to lay on a thick sales job. That was never going to happen.
I have spent too much time in the last 15 years, as I imagine most creatives do, wondering if the phone would ring, wondering if the clients like their images, and wondering if I can recreate the "magic." I am ever grateful to the people who put their trust in me and my art to capture moments of their lives that they will hopefully treasure for a lifetime. I've been lucky to work with incredible partners who have wanted to collaborate with me to create images. What an extraordinary journey this has been. Just a human with a good eye, and enough tenacity to figure out how to do "something" with it. Thank you.
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Some people describe themselves as unphotogenic. But I wonder what that means to them. There are people who blink or look away from the camera at every photo opp. I would say that that falls under the category of difficult to photograph. But someone like this senior? Nailed it! She did a great job working with me, taking my ideas and making them her own. I'm excited to work up the rest of her photos!
How do we move forward when someone we care for is no longer with us? Even if they had many years upon this earth, we only know our own lives intertwined with theirs. And if they were here briefly, we lament that we didn't have more time together. There is hardly ever a "right time" to lose someone.
I snap photographs. I meet people with insecurities and show them how beautiful they are. I don't alter their photos to achieve this, I show them by holding up a mirror and saying, "Look, this is you and what you've created. Isn't it incredible?"
And then, when someone passes away, and the photo that is used to represent the deceased is one that I took? I know that I've done something right. I've captured the essence of the person.
For me, photography isn't about having you pose the way I've instructed the 300 clients before you to pose. It's more about you showing me who you are. Are you comfortable? Is this natural to you? Will this image make your parents and grandparents say, "That's my kid!"
Capturing portraits is more than a click and a shutter. It's a connection. It's proof that you are here. We all want to see you as you are in this moment. Because it is fleeting. In a few years, you will have changed your hair and your style. Your circumstance will be different. But we will have today captured. And that makes the images truly priceless.
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This session kicked off my local senior portraits. I learned a lot asking questions about cars and engine noise. Most of what he said was over my head, but I was impressed by his vast knowledge. I can't wait to see where his future takes him- surely he won't get there quietly! :)
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I poked around behind the floats into where the supplies are kept. There was such a creative energy in the space, and I felt a little of that creative energy flowing through me. I can't say when life will return to normal and when the time to worry will be up, but I do hope I can continue to seek a little adventure, a little sport, and a whole slew of new photos to enjoy.
Just before the pandemic, Ann had a life saving kidney transplant. She had to be very cautious about seeing people because of her recipient status, and then when COVID-19 hit, there was no taking chances. Knowing that I'm now vaccinated, Ann reached out to schedule some portraits to document this new phase: her Act III, as she calls it.
We talked more than we photographed and it made me realize how much I had missed her input in my life. We all go through phases wherein we have to simplify in order to survive. I was so happy to give Ann a hug, and I'm so eager to get back and visit with her again. Though so little has changed because we've been home-bound as of late, yet our perspectives have changed drastically. There remains much to catch up on!
My second refresh shoot was in my client's home, which also serves as her workspace. She's worked from home since long before the pandemic tripped people to consider a different way to get work done. Now that I am vaccinated, I don't worry quite as much about doing my job since I'm typically within six feet of my clients. I wore a mask out of respect, as that is the CDC guideline.
Many of our photos were pre-planned, in that the website will dictate which images go where. Some needed to be vertical, some horizontal. Then afterward, we got to have fun and take some personal profile images with a less formal feel. I believe this was our third in-home session. There was a classic image that we wanted to replicate (with the typewriter), and we also wanted to mix things up. I'm eager to complete working on the series, but here are a few fun peeks at what we created together.
Who wouldn't want to work with this fun, friendly, and hip writer?
My professional photos are secure, but I wasn't as vigilant with my personal photos. And I could kick myself. The truth is: digital files are overwhelming. There are thousands of them. Why? Who needs that many? Nobody does. Really. And yet, in seeing the tiny faces of my now adult sized children, I want them all.
I'm thankful that along the way I've printed super faves. At least I will have those. The reality is, we live in a physical world. As much as digital files are convenient for sharing on social media platforms, they aren't truly tangible. And because they are digital, they can be more delicate and fragile than their paper counterparts. Take care to back up your digital files at least twice. And for the love of everyone around you, print your pictures.
As we go through loves and losses, the image of a loved one increases in value. To have prints you can touch, show off, and share is truly priceless.
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I didn't go far, the pandemic isn't over. The day I decided to go, it was sunny and warm-ish for January in Michigan. I zipped around Parma, starting at the abandoned gas station and then going downtown. I discovered the Parma Feed & Grain store and it spoke to my love of old buildings. There is something truly beautiful about the building and the crumb covered equipment. Have you noticed the gargoyle before? I love the images I was able to snap and I know that the fresh air and sunlight was as good for the soul as the creative process.
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In 2003, I put on an adult sized sweater on my one year old son. I pulled out my film camera and snapped a roll of photos of him wearing this gown-like vest, thinking this would be an annual tradition. We moved a few times, and the sweater always moved with us. I never forgot the sweater, but life happened and I didn't put it back on my son. This-then toddler is now in college. Even though I didn't do an annual photo with this garment, I did want to close out the expectation I had created and photograph my adult son in this now vintage sweater.
I had a yearbook portrait shoot to set up for, so I told my oldest we'd finally snap a photo with the vest and close the case. He complained about the length of it and the sizing. It's not stylish to today's standards, I suppose. But it doesn't offend me. Though I didn't keep up with an annual tradition as I had once thought, I'm certainly glad I have a then and now side by side to admire. What seems to have passed in a blink, is his lifetime. And this sweater will just have to wait to be worn again.
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Welcome 2021. Sometimes a flip in the calendar is more than it seems. 2020 was a dramatic year. If it had been a horror movie, it had something for every level of thrill. That's not really my jam. I found that the moments of 2020 that I forgot about time and place were the ones during which I was behind the lens. As always, I am grateful to those who opted in to the LAF Lines Photography experience.
In the last quarter of 2019, I ended up leaving my beloved studio. It was a difficult decision, but the space was not serving me as I had hoped it would. I remember saying aloud, "I don't know why, but the answer will be revealed to me." When the COVID-19 pandemic broke out, I was so relieved not to have to worry about the studio maintenance. The lack of studio did push me to get creative in providing solutions, which I was glad to do.
I think we learned last year that the best laid plans are cute concepts, but sometimes we are not in control. Typically, the first quarter of any year is quiet for LAF Lines Photo. I spend time archiving and backing up the previous year's work and planning for my "busy season" as I lovingly call it. Due to a renovation in my current workspace, I will be be working even more selectively for the first four months of the year. If you have portraits in your 2021 plans, please feel welcome to get in touch so that we can secure our dates and times; the sooner, the better.
I hope that 2021 brings us all some calm and peace. Let us not forget how fleeting everything is. Life moves swiftly. Don't forget to stop and capture the love. xo, lidija.
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Lately my focus has been on seniors, so it was delightful to capture a family with many levels. "Uncle Beard" dressed as Santa to help his niece overcome her fear of the guy, but it didn't exactly work. The littlest one had no qualm about hanging out in the velvety arms of the world's most notorious gift giver.
While my friend declined to be in the center of every photo, it was a great tribute to her family, just the same. Memories were made in the process of capturing moments. As always with LAF Lines Photo, we do our best to capture the "perfect" photo, but always allow for real life to dictate the outcomes. It was a beautiful evening.
I was honored to capture these right-of-passage portraits. We found a wooded area and it looked like a painted backdrop, it was just so perfect for the peak of fall. (I assure you, it was very real!) We then found a horse trailer and played with the juxtaposition of formal wear and horse trailer with flat tires. She has much to decide as she figures out what she wants to do "with her life." A gifted artist, the sky is the limit!
I was impressed that my senior has already been to Alaska (during the summer solstice, no less) and is vying for a valedictorian spot in her class. Her future is promising and I'm excited to find out how she takes on the world!
Upon leaving with the keys and garage door openers in hand, I inquired to my agent who was at the table. Turns out, it was the seller's real estate agent. As much as her image is on her signs and business cards, she didn't look a thing like that photograph anymore. You may not think about updating your photos, but you should. And I know, I'm guilty of dragging my feet on this, too.
Today I had the help of my budding videographer son who snapped up an updated headshot for me. I picked the spot and set the dials, and then did what is the hardest for me to do: got in front of the lens. He did a great job of breaking the ice by saying things like "I love you" and "Show me your
tiger face." Haha! (Things I do not say when shooting, but might have to start!)
Here is my retired website image. It's a fine photo, just 100% outdated. Vintage, you might say. The thing is, you have to take an image out of circulation for a while in order for it to become vintage. Using it while your weight, hairstyle, glasses, and hair color change fools no-one.
My website has been updated with my new image. Now when people see me, they'll be able to easily connect me to my image! If you're in need of updated photos, show me your tiger face! 517.917.4302
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I am often heard saying "I'm not a sports photographer." And I'm not. But we took photos to pay tribute to his sport, and a few nice nature ones for the record books. We hustled and hurried, and had time for some laughs, too.
So, with joy in our hearts, we carefully and quietly made the best of our surroundings. It was nice to be back at camp. This senior has big plans and is in the process of visiting colleges to figure out where she wants to go. She says her hybrid senior year is going okay. She's thankful for the days that she can be on campus to see her classmates. The class of 2021 will be impacted by the pandemic. We're all hopeful that spread will settle down for the second semester and the kids can close out their high school days in a more traditional manner.
It was a true delight to snap up this senior whom I've watched grow up as a camper. We had fun creating her senior portrait portfolio. She absolutely crushed it!
I had to get my driver’s license renewed today. So, for the first time in about five months, I put on some make-up. This motivated me to forge ahead with this blog, which I’ve been planning for a while. If you’ve read my previous posts you know I’m not a fan of selfies as replacements for professional portraits. BUT- for purposes of this blog, I did take these photos myself. The point isn’t the selfie, it’s the light and angle. There are many other considerations when photographing like how to frame a photo and at what points to cut a subject's body parts. But let's focus on light for now.
(I used an iPhone X, front camera, portrait mode. No flash, filters, or additional accessories.)
The reason people are inspired to selfie in the car isn't the seatbelt. It is because there are so many points of light, the strongest being the front windshield. Facing light is the most flattering. It smoothes out skin. When the camera is directly in front of the subject, however, look at the chin line. It is not the most flattering. The stronger the chin line, the more flattering the portrait.
When the camera is lifted slightly over the subject, the chin line improves. As does the catchlight in the eyes. Catchlight is so important! It’s the little sparkle in the eyes that reflects life and vibrancy. Without it, the subject looks morose. When the subject’s face follows the camera, with a little tilt, we see a softening of the subject. The subtle smile also helps. (Be careful of shadows from the phone at this point. And for the love of everyone around you, do not make a duck face.)
When the light source comes from the side, look what happens to the skin. It’s bumpy. The complexion has seemingly deteriorated. I love this angle and would experiment further. I’m guessing most people taking selfies aren’t looking for drama- they’re seeking flattery. There is also a difference in a portrait, say for the yearbook, and a dramatic portrait.
Which brings us to laying down on the floor, and now the light source is below the subject. Laying down is an instant face lift. Gravity does its work. There’s a lot to play with here. The chin line is fantastic! Nice and crisp. The double chin has receded! It's just not a really natural way to be photographed.
Often it is said that photographers like cloudy days. That is somewhat accurate, but you still have to understand the light. Cloud cover works as a ginormous diffuser, sending equal light around the subject. While this ought to be good, there are a few things to consider. Even on a cloudy day, it is preferable to keep your face toward the light.
In the first photo, with the subject’s back to the light, look at the details in the face. The under eye bags are quite pronounced as they hadn’t been previously. The eyes are shrouded in shadow. (This is potentially what your date sees when you sit with your back to the window. If aiming to impress, sit facing the window!) Once turned toward the light, there is significant improvement and then when the camera was raised the catchlight was finally present and the chin line improved!
Why am I teaching you this? As a consumer of social media, I’d prefer to look at good photos. :) These tips and rules can be applied when you’re taking back to school photos of the kids, group photos, or yes, even the selfie to show off your newest haircut. Understanding why something works well will invariably help you to know how to repeat it and continue to have success with your portraits; selfie or otherwise.
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I enjoyed working with this senior. She knows who she is, and I find that quite admirable. She's considering my alma mater for college, so we had plenty to discuss! My knowledge of Saint Mary's College is dated, but I think there are some qualities that stand up to the test of time. I have my fingers crossed that she'll like it when she visits. She's planning to become a nurse and is entertaining the option of being a traveling nurse which would combine her love of travel and her profession. How cool is that!?
This one is a girl of my own heart who listed reading as a hobby. YES! So, we had to swing by the library to take a few photos, and actually, that was one of my favorite stops. What a cool library branch we have downtown! We didn't go in as it was closed, but the building, the way it's nestled in between two other buildings really lends itself for great light. We ended our tour on St. Mary's campus where we paid tribute to this senior's roots. She's a fifth generation St. Mary's grad! I'll be cheering for her as she finishes up her high school days and then pursues civics as a field of study!
We went from having a detailed shot list (months ago) to absolutely winging it. I know the couple suffered enough uncertainty getting to this day. My goal was to meet them where they were at and keep my camera ready.
The ceremony was beautiful, and though not rushed, it lacked live music which would have extended the mass. Their original guest list was held up and referred to a couple of times, as if welcoming the love and support of those whose physical presence was restricted. The applause for the new Mr. & Mrs. was as lively as though every seat was full. There was a sigh of relief that they pulled it off after months of worry. It wasn't exactly the day they dreamed of. Their wedding was simple and quiet, however, in the end, they made each other's dreams come true simply by saying "I do."
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How do you get to Carnegie Hall? PRACTICE!
I'm now looking through photos to prepare for my son's high school graduation. I've pulled out old hard drives that are full of images. Culling them is a tedious task. Especially in 2008. I. Took. So. Many. Photos. In. 2008. While I am enjoying the trip down memory lane, I am mad at my past self for not going through these before. It's an overwhelming task to do now- whereas monthly or annually it would have been easier to take on.
What I have learned in my eleven years as a photographer is that my most discriminating tastes are immediately after a shoot. When I photograph for a client, I typically choose the images I'm going to process on the very same day. The reason is, I can still smell and hear the shoot. I remember what we were talking about during each frame. I make quick decisions on which photos will make the cut. My instincts are sharp, because I've been doing this for a while. That's not to say there aren't other great images, but the best-of are easily and quickly chosen.
Now, I'm looking through countless images from 2008 and I'm emotionally tied to the little kids in them. My babies! How could I possibly delete any of these precious moments?
But really, why would I ever want anyone to have to sift through all of these ever again?
If you have the luxury of time during this pandemic-life-pause, look through your photos. Weed out the rejects. Make a folder with your all time favorites. And select the images that deserve to be printed. Hard drives fail. Technology evolves and your memory medium might become obsolete. Print more images. Display them. Or put them in a box to give to your graduate for when he moves out and let him choose his favorites.
There's a value lesson in this: quantity does not beat quality. You don't need 25 digital files of the best salad you ever ate. You need a few of your loved ones faces.
Here are a few unedited shots taken in 2008 as I was practicing my craft.
As a portrait photographer, I work to capture my subjects as they are. I don't want to modify reality or costume them up beyond their own comforts. So, this was a fun exercise to put a vision together. While processing, I was giddy because as morose as the concept is, we nailed it. I wanted these images to evoke a lasting feeling. When my son looks back on this birthday and botched graduation, I want him to remember why it was this way.
Whether or not you frequent any of these places, what do you think about the messaging? How much information do you want to be given when walking up to a shuttered business? Some of these aren't identified - which makes sense, because if you're standing in the doorway, you know where you are. But what about branding? Does that matter anymore?
Let's hope we never live through another pandemic that requires this kind of mass shut down. But for the purposes of either occupying a few moments of your time, or to get you thinking, take a look at these and let me know your opinions. Which is your favorite message? Which one(s) exude(s) care to their clients? Which exude calm and which exude fear? Can a sign in a window do that?
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There were still a few cars driving through. And a few people walking about. I didn't touch anything other than my bicycle and camera. I didn't get near anyone.
The wooden sign above Rustic Market, Co. creaked as it danced with the wind. Leaves swirled at the entrance door of the Blue Julep.
As I was photographing, it occurred to me that with the flip of a filter, I could make the images look desolate. When you remove any healthy and fashionable people and add in ominous clouds, you have the perfect recipe to create haunting images. This got me thinking... If you focus on any one thing- you're neglecting something else. Whether it be choosing one task over another, one career path over another, or one political view over another- once you choose the narrative, others go by the wayside.
So, here I present "A Depressed, Severely Impacted Downtown in Mid-America."
This exercise has reminded me of my responsibility as a photographer, a storyteller. Here I've hi-lighted the "Impacted" concept by isolating scenes to portray a predetermined theme. There are always two sides to every story. The truth is typically somewhere in the middle. I'll go back on a sunny day and portrait downtown in a completely different way.
What do you think?
And now this.
I've seen on social media that some of you are using this isolation time to cull and organize photos. Fantastic! Approved! Whether digital or in print, it is a good time, if you have spare time, to edit your photos. I see comedians and funny memes about people showing their photos in the future and there are 17 photos of their dinner one night. Who needs that? Select the best image if you need to keep those at all. Or if it takes 25 selfies to land the one you'll post- get rid of the other 24. Cloud storage is "cheap" but extra photos that you'll never need are still clutter.
I quietly moved out of my studio last fall. This opened me up to the temporary opportunity that I took at the University of Michigan. What was to be a two month assignment kept me busy for five. While at U-M, I worked in the Pathology Communications Department. I took photos, but did more writing. It was very interesting and I was constantly learning more. It was a huge joy for me to see my skill set applied in an existing institution. I do have marketable skills! ;) I called it quits just before these social distancing rules were put into place, knowing that I wanted to return to freelance photography.
It's difficult to make plans when we don't know how long these limitations on our lives will last. I'm sure, we're all making sacrifices for the greater good. Yet, I see that small businesses all around are grappling with lay offs and closures etc. The good news is: because I significantly reduced my expenses last fall, I'm doing okay. LAF Lines Photography will exist when this all blows over and we resume our lives.
While you're confined to your couch, please make a list of what you want to do when the protections are lifted. Create a list of people you'd like to see, restaurants you'd like to visit, small businesses you wish to support, and projects you want to tackle. And when this is all over, check off that to-do list with hearts and smiley faces. Because this will end. And we will live freely once more. Until then, stay safe. Keep creative. xo.
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On the drive over I asked if he brought a guitar or uke. Nope, forgot. I asked if he packed a speaker so we could listen to music. Nope. I forgot to mention it when I thought of it earlier in the week. You'd think the photographer's child would be entirely prepared with props and concepts. But isn't there a fable or something about a cobbler's kid not having shoes? Yea, I think that's how it goes.
This was probably my fastest photoshoot. I could very easily and comfortably say "no, turn this way" without having to give much explanation or worry about upsetting him. He's used to me and my process. I'm thrilled with the results, and the fact that I got this special time with my guy. These photos are just so "him."
(Here's a quick throwback to when these now-seniors were little campers ten years ago.)
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I arrived to the studio with a dark gray cloud hanging over the Blake Building. But to the north I could see a lighter shade of gray. The wind was blowing in the right direction... And what do you know? Within the hour we had the most beautiful light for the session! The blue sky showed herself and we were able to capture some great photos celebrating this senior: a little bit of guitar, a little bit of baseball.
So, these guys are cousins. And I didn't know that they are only one day apart in birth order! Wow! What an exciting time for this family that must have been! We chatted about future plans and a guinea pig named Chunk Baby. Or was it Baby Chunk? Try as I might, I could not get that name right.
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This was my only evening shoot of the week. I enjoyed photographing "in reverse" as the sun set instead of rose. I love that this kid loves the camp spot so much, that he wanted his senior portraits taken there.
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When photographing twins, it's important for me to pick up on the nuances- of what differentiates the siblings. I need this insight to better approach them for their portraits. It helps to draw out their personalities and best showcase them in their images. They are collectively and individually beautiful and bright! I'm so glad I got to know them better during our session.
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I think waiting for the weather was a great idea. This braces-less senior was willing to smile. Because he wasn't frozen, he was willing to walk about downtown Jackson with me so we could have some fun! He was a champ of a sport. I'd love to write more, but I have a deadline to meet! ;)
I said, "You must video tape this reunion! It's going to be something extraordinary." My new friend nodded and said, "We were thinking about hiring a photographer for family portraits, too." It was serendipitous that we were standing in the same place at the same time, and that she choose to reveal her story. "I've only told two other people about this." She admitted.
I happened to have a wide open day in my weekend, so on Sunday, I got a full access pass to a wonderful family Union/Reunion. The mom held on tightly to her adult daughter, joyfully exclaiming that she never dreamed this moment would come. The newly discovered sister blended in so perfectly with her siblings. She had always said, "I look like me." Then she met a sister at the airport and said, "Wow, I look like you."
It was my greatest delight to Capture the Love of this United/Reunited family.
(My Uncle Joe with his sons, one year before he passed away.
He was a photographer and taught me much)
I watched my social media flood with images of friends visiting Notre Dame Cathedral. Some visits were recent, some from the nineties. Those who grieved that historically significant building burning needed to express their concern with evidence that they had once been there.
When a loved one passes away, we look for images to show them in their best light, or in their most natural state. We post them online and arrange them for visitors to see at the funeral. We celebrate a person's legacy through the images we have to show successes and tender moments.
Do not dismiss the value of an image. Perhaps their significance cannot be understood until a time of sorrow. But, do not wait until then to realize the images were never created.
]]>Though blonde and blue eyed, this child takes after me. He has many of my shapes, tendencies and personality quirks. Oh poor baby. He's very creative and has an entrepreneurial spirit. I have no doubt he'll come up with a creative endeavor for himself. But for now, he's fourteen. And taller than all of his friends.
Why do small businesses matter, you might ask. You can find everything you need at the big box stores. Why shop small? While it is reassuring to have standardized offerings in town, so that we, as consumers, know we can get copy paper, Tikka Masala simmer sauce and a pair of jeans, small businesses are what individualize our town. What sets Jackson apart from other small-ish cities in Michigan are our offerings that aren't from the big-box catalogue.
Enter, my five suggestions to help out small businesses. I'm not above saying, please do apply this to LAF Lines Photography as well. I certainly am not interested in making the news as a closed business.
1. If you know of a company that offers services, hire them. They actually don't make money when you say "I'll call you" and then never follow through. It is fair to compare pricing and quality of service and make educated decisions. Likewise, if you have an event coming up, and would like to include a business, but aren't sure what services they offer that could work into your event, talk to them. Experienced small business owners have possibly done something similar for someone else. A newbie might just be willing to dive into a new idea!
2. If the small business you want to support sells things, buy them. I often go into places and purchase an inexpensive item simply to show my support. I hope that others do the same, and that collectively our little purchases amount to something good. I have to say, it's such a great feeling when someone I meet finds out that I am LAF Lines and tells me they love my notecards!
3. If you're cruising on social media and see something from a business you enjoy, share it- like it- comment on it. It's not a commitment to spend money, but it helps the business immensely. Facebook, for example, won't spread a post, until it has received a few likes or comments. Thus, news of a sale, promotion or special offer can get cut off at the pass. It takes a village to get things moving, and it helps spread the word of a small shop.
4. The best compliment I've ever received is a referral. It's also the best marketing tool I have. Tell your friends about your positive experiences with a small business. I've taken business cards from places to share with my friends when I want them to know how great something is. I'm a huge advocate for businesses I love. I'll bring friends from out of town so that they, too, can enjoy the service or product.
5. In this era, we spend a lot of time trusting other people's opinions on Yelp or Google. When it comes to a small business, one bad review can scar their ranking for a long time. When you like something or someone, talk them up. Write a review. I'd also say, if you have a concern, talk to the owner. Often times the owner will do what it takes to correct a problem. Reputation is paramount, and when a small business is learning its way, the best resource they have for information is you, the consumer.
If you didn't have "helping a small business" on your list of 2019 New Year's Resolutions, I hope that you'll consider it now. The decisions you make with your money dictate and drive our economy and our selections here in town. If you hope to see a business bloom and grow, sprinkle some water their way.
]]>Before taking myself seriously enough to go into business, I had people encouraging me to "do something" with my photography. I just didn't know what that meant or what that would look like. I practiced. A LOT. I remember at a bookclub meeting a friend saying that she had a thousand digital images from the previous year to file. I almost choked. I had a thousand each month. I spent a couple of seasons assisting Elizabeth Walker Photography. I learned so much from Liz on how to handle clients and myself as a photographer. I still refer to what she taught me.
Once I got going, it was all about finding my voice. I've always loved business and customer service. I'm meticulously organized, so it's been really easy for me to stay on top of my work load and deliver what I've promised. But how would I distinguish myself from other photographers? In the digital age, so many people claim photography as their passion. Trends morph and change, even in photography. The popularity of filters surged and suddenly everyone was a master. There have been a few times that I've thought that perhaps it was quitting time.
I've stayed true to my brand. I named my company LAF Lines because it actually says a lot about me. 1) I have awesome initials: LAF. So appropriate because: 2) I love to laugh. 3) I believe that aging is a privilege to be celebrated. 4) You, as you are, are the absolute best version of you, laugh lines and all.
I like to tell stories in my images. But I want to tell your story. Not mine. (I'll save those for personal projects.) As a photographer for hire, I'm interested in knowing the essence of you and showcasing that in the photos. I don't feel that you need glamming up or airbrushing so hard that your face is unrecognizable. It's a tough road to take and I know I've not earned some clients because of it. I also find that the clients that come to me, get me.
I've been fortunate in the past ten years to travel with my camera. I've had clients bring me to Tiburon, California, Vero Beach, Florida, Traverse City, Michigan and a few places around Chicago-land. I got to photograph VP Joe Biden and his wife Jill Biden when they were in Detroit campaigning in 2012. I helped a friend realize a dream by providing all the photography in her book. My images are on websites and in brochures and on the backs of books.
It's been an incredible journey. I'm so honored to be present in the lives of my clients for just a little while; the time we share immortalized by the images that I can only hope are hung and cherished for a lifetime. I don't take my job lightly, but I approach it with a casual and easy attitude to help keep clients at ease since for some, being photographed isn't a favorite activity.
Thank you for ten years of memories, opportunities and encouragement. When you take your business as personally as I take mine, there are days that it feels entirely overwhelming. Then I'll get an email of gratitude or see someone on the street who recognizes me and says nice things, and I'm back on track again. (PSA- Be kind, you never know when someone really needs a dose of it!) I wouldn't have made it this long if it weren't for you. I never forget this.
I remain, humbly,
your photographer. xo
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1. Bring lip care. Even for guys. If we're hanging out for an hour or so, we'll be gabbing and smiling and laughing. Your lips might get dry, and when you smile, they might not look so luscious. Bring with you your favorite gloss, lip balm or the like. A touch up midway through our session is a great idea.
2. Floss your teeth. Don't eat a burrito on your way over here unless you're ready to floss upon arrival. Trust me.
3. If you're bringing wardrobe changes, consider a lint brush or lint roller. Goodness knows we all love to snuggle with our fur babies, but their hair in your portraits isn't necessarily the look you might be going for.
4. Bring extra haircare products with you, especially if we're heading outside. A little wind can do a lot of damage to a perfectly coiffed head of hair.
5. Avoid the shine. I love this Up & Up (Target brand) oil absorbing product. If you're wearing powder, it helps. But if the day is humid, or you were in a hurry to get to our session, eliminate the glow with these handy things. I carry them in my purse always! Even when not in front of the lens, I find these to really help save face!
6. If you're not sure if you should, bring it! I am often inspired by the props, clothes and concepts my clients bring to me. Even if you think it's silly or impossible, try me. You might be right- or we might just create some magic. If you're not a prop kind of person, that's totally cool, too. I roll with them all.
If you have any questions, ever, of course feel welcome to reach out. Your photographer should be open to the possibilities that you bring to the table, even unscripted. It's impossible to know exactly what to expect, and by the time your session is over, it's too late to consider something else. So, plan accordingly and let's have some fun!
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We took just a couple of shots in front of Jackson’s beautiful new murals, then headed to more private spaces. We shared some laughs and I enjoyed our chats about music, college and bears. Oh my!
We met at our beloved Lithuanian Youth Camp and had fun sharing stories while striking poses. I wasn't terribly emotional about the shoot because it naturally feels like it's time. He's a senior, he needs photos- yea. We got this. It wasn't until I was alone at the studio looking through his photos that I noticed my partiality. I have a pretty good system in place for paring down photos. I'm efficient and I know what to look for. I struggled with pics of my nephew. They were all winners in my book! I'll have to do a second pruning because I really loved.them.all! For now, here are a few faves.
This senior is working kitchen duty. She's transitioning from camper to staff. In a couple of years she might aspire to be a counselor to give back to those younger than her. In the meantime, she's got volleyball tryouts next week and what is sure to be an action-packed senior year!
If you’re a small business and don’t have the time to tackle social media, call me. If you’re a small business and can’t afford to hire a part or full time employee to manage your social media, call me. If you take a photo of your product and it lacks pizazz or turns out blurry, call me.
I can lend my skill set by taking photos for you, coming up with clever posts and even manage your customer engagement. I enjoy blending my passion for images and words to create social media posts that attract and lead to customer interaction. You may have the best thing going in town, but unless you get that information before your intended audience, you may be hearing crickets instead of phone calls. Meet your customers on the venues where they scroll. Allow LAF Lines Photography to help you.
LAF Lines Photography was born out of a love for business and art. You may expect that same level of professionalism and creativity when hiring LAF Lines Photography to help you move your business forward. Call today to schedule a consultation and to learn how LAF Lines Photography can help you market your brand. 517-917-4302
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Who remembers exchanging photos with friends? Who had plastic photo sleeves in their wallets to quickly and easily show off family and friends? There was a tradition when I was in high school of signing the backs of photos. Many were thoughtfully inscribed with comments, compliments and memories. I recently found my little wallet sized album and delighted in the images of my friends and the words they dedicated to me. It’s funny to look back and see how I was perceived and certain memories have been triggered with the combination of images and words.
I have many parents ask me now, “Do the kids exchange photos anymore?” The answer seems to be a no. Kids these days live in digital images. They like to keep their memories in their phones or in social media. I just wonder where those will be in a few years. We live in a physical world.
The current crew of young ones likely don’t remember floppy disks. They barely know about CDs. With the advancement of technology, things are changing at a fast pace. Do kids back up their phones? Do they have hard drives of images? (Frankly, do they really need to keep them all?) And what happens when the hard drives are no longer adaptable?
What about the classics? Shouldn’t some images be brought into the light of day and hung on the wall or kept in a physical album that has proven to withstand the test of time? In an age when we take too many snaps of ourselves, series and multiples of the same thing because it’s digital and “free,” I suggest taking the time to print those which are significant. Select a wall in your home and put up reminders of those relevant and wonderful moments.
When the kids insist on digital files, so that they can easily broadcast their images, it makes sense to grant that. But, be sure to print some photos as well. After all, when they’re out exploring the world, wouldn’t you, yourself like some momentos of their time at home? Perhaps a wall full of memories that can be added to as the kids begin families of their own?
The struggle is real when having to search through old phones, computers or flash drives to find the images that represent our lives. Print them out. Date the back. Hang them up. Photos are moments of perfection. Those moments deserve to be on display and cherished. They're conversation starters and memory holders. Don't let your precious captures get lost in the digital abyss.
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It was a privilege to snap up this senior and get to spend a beautiful spring evening with him. I asked about his future plans and what he'll miss most about high school. It was insightful and affirming. He's got a bright future ahead of him. I remain thankful for his positive influence in my family's life. It is critical to recognize the impact one person can make. The ripple effect pulses onward. With such influence, comes great responsibility. Use it wisely.
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I was thrilled when my oldest auditioned for a play one year ago. My first love: theatre. Gosh, did I have fun. Anyone I knew back then remember the atomic fireball friendship club? Or when the bag of pretzels exploded before my big scene?
I photographed the cast of GUYS AND DOLLS for a show poster to be in the lobby and I photographed the final dress rehearsal so the thespians would have still momentos and see what the whole thing looked like from the audience perspective. The photos are my gift to the cast/crew and families. It’s nice to breathe the theatrical air and reflect on my play years. As the slower paced first quarter of they year comes to a close, I’m glad to have kept my skills sharp on a great group of students. I hope their love of theatre continues into college and their communities.
So, here's me. My arm is only so long. They don't Go-Go-Gadget and extend. Without wanting to get my arm in the photo, my angle choices are limited when going the selfie route. Not to mention the entire image is soft and lacks clarity. The self facing camera on a mobile device is not the sharpest tool in the shed. I'm not a fan of making fish lips or duck faces, that does nothing for anyone but affect ridicule.
Last year on vacation my sons and I watched a woman standing on the beach among lounge chairs taking repeated selfies. She made all the eyes and lips at the camera. She then put a bikini on over a bikini and took another series of photos. We thought that this was a colossal joke because she was taking her selfies a little too seriously. AND IN PUBLIC, no less. Alone selfies really should be done in private. The front seat of a car is not private. But do you know why people are inspired in the car? It's the lighting. Great diffused light coming from multiple directions softens the skin.
So, here's me again. With the guidance of my friend Jenny Mietelka, I have better shoulder positioning and a more flattering angle. This photo has more crispness and potential for printing power. (You never know when you might rent a billboard.) When considering what you want to put on your professional profile pic, skip the selfie. Even asking someone to take your photo would be a move in the right direction.
It is important to maintain an updated profile photo in professional situations. Ever been to a conference and the speaker looks like they ate the person on the poster? Ever walked into a room and thought someone looked vaguely familiar, but not been able to name them due to a major departure from their head shot? If your image is important in what you do, keep your profile photos updated. This isn't a vanity move. This speaks to your credibility and is an investment in your customer's trust.
When it's time for an updated profile photo, don't reach for the selfie mode of your cell phone. Use the phone to dial a photographer (517-917-4302) and schedule a session for your professional image!
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People fascinate me. I’ve always had a pull towards corresponding with friends. I used to look up long lost friends before Facebook existed and reach out. (It was possible to lose touch with people in the years before social media.) I like to know what they’re up to. I’m curious as to the paths they’ve chosen and how those choices have impacted their lives.
In honor of my 25th high school reunion year, I’m feeling a project coming on! Remember my "Everyone Has a Story" project? I’d like to interview and photograph (no more than) 25 members of the class of 1993. I have a questionnaire ready, and I’d like to see what people my age are up to. To make things interesting, I’d love to catch up with my own schoolmates, and I’d also love to meet with people from any high school who graduated in 1993.
While going through it, high school is the biggest deal ever. I’m curious to see if it remains the biggest thing when looking back, 25 years later. There is no cost to participants, this is an artful project of my own imagination. Travel within a few hours of LAF Lines Photography headquarters is possible. Participants will be asked to sign a release so that I may use the images and answers in an ensemble yet to be designed. 1024x1024 images will be released to participants to be used as they’d like on their social media.
If you graduated high school in 1993, let’s catch up! 517.917.4302 [email protected]
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We like to document the joyful times of our lives. We hire photographers for weddings, births and other significant milestones. How about funerals? I grew up with parents who would receive photos from Lithuania of relatives standing beside caskets of loved ones. They were grim photos, but they documented the end of life, and showed the survivors. So, to me, photos at funerals aren't out of the ordinary.
Before Christmas, a photographer I love passed away. His funeral was the 27th. My aunt didn't directly ask me to take photos, but I knew she was asking. Leave it to my mom to tell me bluntly that I should take photos. So I did. As with weddings, but perhaps even more so, funerals are a blur in hindsight.
Joe had a successful career in photography. He took photos of my family throughout our significant milestones. He also did corporate work and weddings. Aside from that, he always had a camera at family functions. He documented our lives. My aunt, in her grief, so plainly stated "We lost our photographer." So true. It was actually an honor to capture his funeral for my family to have images to send back to the old country or just to keep to help remember the day. Maybe they'll look at them once, and never again. Totally okay.
Being responsible for photographing the day was a welcomed distraction. Over the course of his illness, I had to fill in for Joe a couple of times. They were challenges in the sense that he had previously made the task look easy, with his many years of experience- and because I didn't want to have to replace him because he no longer could take on the responsibilities. I knew we would lose him and that was not okay.
When Joe's body was brought to the altar of the church, I smiled to myself. He had stunning light. Photography is nothing more than capturing light. And at the funeral, his was beautiful. I'm not sure if anyone else noticed, or if it was just for me. But I snapped it up. It was tough to say good-bye to a mentor and fellow camera compadre. I grieve for my family members who still had plans and dreams to share, and for the community at large who lost a friend and a giver and a gentle, kind soul. As my cousin said in the eulogy, "Joe is the kind of person we need more of in the world, and cannot afford to lose."
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2017 has been a rough year for Steph. She's faced her own mortality- twice; in the name of Crohn's Disease. Her diagnosis came on December 25, 2015 at the age of 23 after she'd spent 22 hours vomiting. Since her diagnosis, she's never been in remission, and most of her time has been considered at a severe level. She had to modify her diet and take medications to try and simply carry on.
One year after diagnosis, it was determined that to bring her intense level of pain and illness down to a more bearable state, she'd have to have surgery. Steph now lives with 8 inches less of ileum and 2 inches less of sigmoid in her digestive system. After a severe allergic reaction to her medication, she has been recovering.
This woman has had to explain to her family her wishes in the event that she didn't survive her surgery. And you know that YOLO chant? She lives it every single day, because Steph lives with the knowledge that her Crohn's can't be cured and she's likely to go for another round of surgery. But this girl isn't going down without a fight.
Accepting her scars and paying tribute to her fight were the themes of our session. Steph ordered an old pair of boxing gloves that were shipped from the Ukraine. I was honored to be part of her recovery. Travel plans that were put on hold this past year are back on the schedule. Steph doesn't show signs of slowing down. She'll lead the way, and the Crohn's will have to follow her--- not the other way around.
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As the seniors (and I) are workers, we wake up mighty early to fit in photos before the camp awakens and the full day of activities begin. I had the pleasure of snapping up this guy bright and early- while donning a suit! I loved the idea of him wearing a suit in our woodsy locale. He also changed into one of his own creations. He is using his artful eye and creative mind to design t-shirts that celebrate our Lithuanian ties! (The one he is wearing is a total mind bending Gedimino Stulpas (Coat of Arms). If you need this great shirt, let me know and I'll pass on your contact info.)
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1. When do I need to start thinking about senior pictures?
Some parents (and students) have been planning for this right-of-passage event for years. Others would rather not. Many students opt to have their portraits done the summer before senior year. Some kids want summer greens and blues as their backdrops. Some prefer the tones of autumn. Some want their photos taken, selected and ordered before the first day of school. What season does your senior like best? What suits their mood? When can we showcase their happiest season? Once you have a sense of that, let's schedule a date. It's never too soon to get on my schedule.
2. Location, location, location??!?
Based on the above, where is the best spot to showcase your senior's joy? Is your kid an indoor or outdoor spirit? Is there a family property or favorite spot that has special meaning to your senior? Is your student more country or more city? Perhaps the backyard is the most comfortable place with all the amenities of wardrobe/hair and make up. Let's not forget my studio space as an option also!
3. My kid really doesn't want to make a big fuss.
Totally get it. I've had moms "drag" their kids in for senior photos. They sit through their session because mom wants it done, not because they do. And that's okay, too. We'll make the best of it. I usually end up surprising the kids by being so laid back, that they nearly forget why they're hanging out with me. The results show them relaxing and ultimately engaging in the process.
4. This sounds like a great excuse to go shopping!
My sessions are based on time, not poses or outfits. So, bring as many ensambles as you'd like. My recommendation is for at least two, covering a more dressy look and a more casual look. I like clothes that are simple so that the model stays the focal point. Shop for clothes that accentuate the positives, or just bring your favorite classics that your best friends know you by. We can go over specifics during our pre-shoot consultation.
If you've ended up with more questions after reading this, no sweat. Let's set up a pre-shoot consultation to review ideas and wardrobe and what props to bring. Bring your student so they can get to know me, too. If you're busy, call me and we'll spend some time talking through the questions. 517.917.4302
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1) Choose shade. If you're lucky enough to have a bright, beautiful sunny day for prom, your subjects might be better photographed in the shade. It might seem counterintuitive, however, the sun causes discomfort to those standing in it AND produces harsh shadows. Nothing shuts down the photo taking window faster than making your subjects feel uncomfortable before the first shutter has snapped.
2) Neutralize your background. Avoid lamp posts that might appear to be sprouting out of Davey-the-date's head. Be careful not to put Gloria-the-gorgeous in a situation where there is a window reflection of all the parents taking photos. Pay attention to what's going on behind the subjects. Try using a step ladder to change the angle. A little height goes a long way to clearing our the background clutter.
3) Try not to say "smile". Though also likely counterintuitive, allow your subjects to be themselves. Perhaps they're nervous or uncomfortable with all the attention. Maybe the bowtie is too tight, or the pantyhose are slipping down. (Does anyone even wear hose anymore?) When your subjects arrive in their photo spot, try not to descend upon them with commands of "look here" or "smile." They might need a minute to take it all in. Prom is a big deal, after all.
Have your attendee interact with the other kids who are in the group. Engage with them by asking them questions or making them laugh while having the camera on the ready. Snap candids. They'll appreciate the true expressions that tell the story of the day. Let me know how it goes!!
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I've worn boy-short hair for 88% of my life. I grew out my hair for my wedding. It was the 90's. I didn't trust I'd be able to find a hairpiece for my short hair. Immediately upon returning from the honeymoon, I chopped off my hair. It just wasn't me. And though lovely, my wedding photos aren't really representative of who I truly was, either. I mean, I look like a kid playing dress up. I grew out my hair for one day; possibly the most photographed day of my life. (This was way before cell-cameras. We put disposable film cameras on the tables. Ha, remember those?)
So, my point? As a photographer, my goal is to photograph you. Not an interpretation of you. Not a version of you. But truly you. You are the person that those around you love. And that's who they want to see represented on their mantle, on their desk at work or on the wall in their home. They want quality images that best show the person they adore. The reality is, there is no better time to capture the essence of you as you live this incredible journey. It is the absolutely perfect time for portraits. No make-over required.
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For 2017 I made a New Year's resolution to learn more, to take different pictures, to expand my horizons. So, in the dark, I took these photos of my son. I absolutely loved playing with light, turning a flash on, using a strobe and some base lights... The results were so much fun. Because my photo shoot had more set up work involved, I gave my son props to help him wait out my different experimentations. I need to take advantage of the early darkness yet this winter- I have lots of time to experiment without having to wait up past my bedtime! :)
In my last blog I touched on the concept of printing big. And I meant it! I had a photo session with my 12 year old recently and I absolutely love some of the images because they completely represent him. (I will write a blog post about his shoot soon.) Since I've been updating the images in the studio, I thought why not print one of someone I love so dearly. I ordered a 24"x36" canvas wrap and eagerly awaited its delivery.
Before we get to that, let's talk space. I had a blank wall in mind to hang this canvas on. It's above the couch in the studio. The couch is six feet long (with some additional for the arms.)
Now, how would it look if I hung an 8x10 which is matted and framed so it is more like 11x14. An 8x10 is a common choice for my clients. And in a tiny space or on a desk, it would look fantastic. But hanging on a wall?
What do you think? Is that enough? Even in a collection of several images, the photo is lost. It's so small. And to view it well, you'd practically need to stand on the couch. So, let's hang the 2'x3' canvas wrap and take in the view.
Wow! Now we've made impact. You can clearly see the photo from the other side of the room. No question. There is no glare since the photo is printed on canvas. Imagine filling your home or workspace with photos of people you love the most. The day after I hung this, I went into the above photographed room first upon returning to the studio. I wanted to take in the photo again. There's my boy. (Now I need to hurry and order another big print of my oldest- just to keep things even.) :)
INTRODUCING a pre-shoot consultation. Whether on the phone or in-studio, let's get to know each other before shoot day! I have already done this with many of my clients, but in order to meet expectations, I have a few more questions I'd like to ask. The more you know of how my operation works before we get going, the more likely you'll be pleased in the end.
I've had a few clients struggle with my website when it comes to ordering their prints. From now on, you can come to the studio and we can order prints together. I want to be sure you get what you need out of the session to hang in your home or to send to grandma. I'm here to help guide you through the many choices that my terrific lab offers! If you're out of town, no worries, we can still use my online private album option. Just know that I am available to help walk you through your selections.
This year, I really want to encourage my clients to print their photos. And not just by way of an 8x10 that you have to squint at from across the room. Let's go big! Let's decorate your home with the beautiful moments we capture together. Your portraits can serve as very personal art for your walls. I've spoken with Wendy who owns "A Frame Above" on the first floor of "my" building. She's offering a 20% discount on materials for any of my clients that get their LAF Lines Photography photos framed with her.
I've done some research and have discovered some remarkably modern and fresh albums. We can put your photoshoot in its own book to keep and treasure for years to come. If someone you love is out of town, they'd love to see the images from our time together in a beautifully assembled album.
The bottom line is: I am here for you. I want you to take away completed works of art from my studio, into your home. I hope not to see LAF Lines boxes stacked up with photos still in them because the chore of finding the right frame is too time consuming. Believe me, I understand in how many different directions you're being pulled. And that feeling that life is going by too quickly... Let's stop time with my camera. Let's enjoy the now- and create fabulous works of love for you to cherish in your home for many years to come!
If you've got a mind to book photo shoot, it is never too soon to get something scheduled! 517.917.4302
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Today was a brilliant autumn day. I had to do paperwork for LAF Lines. And then I was itching to get out and take some people-less photos. I wanted to be outside. I took a quick drive to my favorite summer spot, Camp Dainava. To me this is the land of many joys. I find much inspiration here. And on a day like today, much peace.
Remember in the beginning of the year I made a resolution to go out and shoot for sport every month? Well, I was really good about it until about June. I have been shooting, but not necessarily with intent. And once school started I kept very busy photographing my son's marching band and cross country team. So, today my shooting was very personal. All the while I was snapping these photos, I could hear shooting from a distance- from a gun. It must be hunting season.
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And the show went on!
The ceremony was in a lovely, wooded outdoor chapel. For the most part, we were protected by the trees. The rain did stop for a little while after mass, so we quickly snapped family portraits and started on bridal party photos. When it rained again, we ducked under a 300 year old oak tree. It kept us dry, and we kept on clicking.
The ceremony and reception had lovely Lithuanian customs mixed in. The bride and groom arrived by boat to their reception. On the shore they were greeted by their friends holding a canopy of woven sashes for the newlyweds to walk under. Some sashes came down and the couple were forced to kiss in order to be let through.
The reception went on long after I packed up and headed home. I left impressed by the spirit of love that defined the day and made a bigger showing than the rain clouds.
His grandmothers have vocalized their dislike of my son's hair. There have been pantomimed scissors in the direction of his head. So, I think they'll be glad it's haircut time! Personally, I think this hair is pretty fabulous. He's only eleven. I admire his sense of self, and his courage to go against the mainstream. We had a great time during our shoot. We discussed modeling, contact lenses and the heat! (Which kept us indoors)
I suppose I won't have to make prints from this shoot for the grandmas. With the money I save, I'll make a donation in honor of O's attempt to Children with Hairloss- a Michigan charity. :)
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If you live around Michigan- hopefully you enjoyed the gorgeous weather this past weekend. The previous weekend it was snowing in some parts. The trip up to Traverse City was beautiful. While not everything was yet in bloom, the entire northern area was electric and alive with spring. A perfect backdrop for a May wedding.
The dinner tables in the Penninsula Room at Jolly Pumpkin were decorated with hand crafted table numbers, flower boxes and beer: bottled and labeled with utmost consideration to the special event. The dessert table was filled with scrumptious traditional Lithuanian cakes and tortes. The bride and groom? They need no description. Their style and their love speak for themselves in the images. It was my utmost pleasure to spend their wedding day with them, Capturing the Love.
'I personally, do not like getting my photos taken. And I've given a hard time to my mom about it. Just having all the attention on me, even if it's my closest family, makes me uncomfortable. This photo shoot was different.
I grabbed what I would wear and props. It's always good to have chapstick, I don't know exactly why, but the professional told me so. I told Miss lidija my favorite location and we chose a nice day to go.
lidija put me in spots that would be cool, and I came up with spots that would be cool. It was a no-stress time, and we had nothing to worry about. In the end, I had lots of fun, and the photos turned out great. She's the best photographer I know and a fun person to be with."
[Editor's Notes] Colin speaks the truth: he's always given me a hard time during photo time. Something changed this year, and he really went for it. He chose his favorite clothes (Although I did suggest the Jackson, Michigan shirt because that's where we live) and he brought his guitar. I told him to bring a Lippy because smiling dries out the lips and keeping them moist during a photo shoot is practical.
I gave Colin my usual pre-game speech. I tried to treat him like any client. So, I told him I would give him suggestions, and I wanted his as well. I have a very open policy when I shoot. My goal is for the images to always reflect the subject, so input matters. Even though some are nervous about their photo shoots, I try my best to get them to relax and almost forget that they were nervous about it at all. I often hear from my clients that they had fun, that it wasn't as "bad" as they thought it would be etc. These are always a sign to me that I'm doing my job.
His conclusion that I'm the best photographer he knows... well, that's a good boy. An extra meatball on his spaghetti tonight. ;)
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This year, my 14 told me he wanted to go to his favorite spot in the world: Our beloved Lithuanian Summer Camp. He wanted to bring his guitar and his dog. Away we went. He stuck with me for an entire hour- posing and creating suggestions, just like a regular client. I am thankful I will have these photos to remember this special pre-high school time. More, I am thankful for the memories we created in taking these photos. This is my boy.
In this world of constant change, I find myself growing as a person within my art. I cross promote what I do and sometimes wonder if it's confusing to see cute little baby Jimmy's photos on my blog followed by images of an abandoned hospital. But both of those dualities make me whole. And now enter my latest craze of creating notecards and having them in stores around me. (I'm up to four now!)
I created the (above) flow chart in an attempt to define LAF Lines and what I do. I now have two Facebook pages for each branch. (I thought of starting a second business, but that seemed so overwhelming and expensive.)
Look for blog posts to be posted about portraits on LAF Lines Photography. News and sightings of my still work and notecards can be found with LAF Lines. The newest printed products have this new form of my logo. All content will point to my current website. Follow one page or both, based on what you'd like to see more of!
Thank you for your continued support of my little business. I love creating and evolving and hope that you'll continue to grow with me!
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Once I told my son about his pre-Senioritis Booster Shots he got excited and started telling me about where, when and how we should take these pre-right of passage photos.
Then I thought, perhaps others would appreciate an opportunity like this for their own soon-to-be-high-schoolers. So I created a special value package, just for those about to hop onto the high school wagon!
When I moved to Jackson 12 years ago, I noticed a self deprecating mentality in town. It didn't affect me too much while I was busy with my little boys. Once I stepped back into the world and planted myself downtown, it really started to bother me. I can see why Jackson is so down on itself. There are people jonesing for a change. There are some who see nothing wrong with the way this town is. There is quite a bit of flight. There are many reasons to want to leave.
The economic struggles that hit Michigan punched Jackson. We're recovering, so it seems. Many of our industries have moved or shut down, so we need to reimagine Jackson.
I've watched and admired the Pure Detroit campaign from afar. Whenever in Detroit, I pick up some pro-Detroit gear for myself and my boys. I'm a fan of a pro-Detroit message. When I was a kid, the t-shirts you could don from Detroit showed images of a smiley face with a bullet hole in the head that said "have a nice day." Now, Pure Detroit is working hard along with several other brands and groups that I follow on social media, and they've made Detroit cool again.
I want to make Jackson cool again. I have limited time and resources, so I've channeled my energy in creating notecards. Notecards are things we drop in the mail and send to loved ones near and far. We send friends notes of cheer and sorrow. I want to spread the word to the world that Jackson is more than a prison city. I want us to acknowledge and celebrate our culture. I want us to turn around the way we think about this place.
Some of us are stuck here. Some of us choose to live here. Let's make the best of it, shall we?
(Notecards are $4 each and can be ordered by calling 517.917.4302 or emailing [email protected])
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As a one-woman operation, I wear many hats. I am the LAF Lines Photography photographer, president, marketing department, accounting department, inventory keeper, office cleaner etc. It looks like in 2016 I'll need to add Loss Prevention Department to my list.
I was so excited when I noticed that one of my canvas prints was gone from my Artitude display. Of course I assumed that someone had purchased it. But when I noticed the blank look on the "cashier" my enthusiasm dimmed. There was no record of sale of my JACKSON Train Station print. It was stolen.
When you shop local, you directly impact the business and the community around it. I think the same goes for when you steal local. I am not a big box store. I don't have mass quantities of my products. It's what makes small businesses like mine unique and special. When something is lost, or stolen, it has direct impact.
I won't let something like this keep me down. As my 13 year old stated, "Be flattered that someone liked your work so much they were risking jail to have it." Thanks, buddy.
In the meanwhile, if you happen to be enjoying company somewhere and see the above (missing) 8x12 2.5" canvas print- know that it was stolen.
It's a one of a kind.
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By the time I was seven years old, I had cracked my skull and broken my arm. I had lost my two front teeth and was beginning the journey to my adult form.
I was learning about faith, loyalty and friendships. It was an awkward time of change and growth; physically and emotionally. Who I would eventually be was still unclear to me, though the writing was surely on the walls.
As I celebrate seven years of LAF Lines Photography, I am grateful for the many relationships I have developed as a photographer. I have learned from mistakes and celebrated many great moments from behind the lens.
My journey is not yet complete, and I feel tremendous excitement at the continued possibilities. Thank you for your many cheers. Thank you for the opportunities. Thank you for hiring me when you said you would. Thank you for telling your friends about me. Thank you for keeping me around these past seven years.
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At 1:30 the clouds spaced out and the sun shined upon us! We had a beautiful couple of hours together to snap up this senior! I LOVE when that happens! This senior deserved a sunshine-y afternoon for her special session!
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One of the first things 70% (Editor's note: not really a mathematical statistic, I made it up) of my clients tell me is, "I hate having my pictures taken." I agree with them. I'm not a fan myself. So, of course, I challenged myself to have my photos done for my 40th birthday!
My photographer (who asked to remain anonymous) is a friend. So, I did have an advantage in feeling comfortable with this person with no warm-up. I promised myself I would go with the flow during our time. I wouldn't resist the process or let my insecurities get the best of me.
I always ask my clients to trust me. I will only show them the best photos of themselves. If I release a proof, it means: YOU LOOK MARVELOUS! I had to put that same trust in my photographer. I was surprised that I totally dig the results. What do you see?
I love this photo of me! Do you see all of my "flaws"? Were you looking for them? Or only after I told you? They are the flaws that make my face mine. The angle of the photo is flattering. It's a great photo of me: flaws and all. When you first looked at my photo, it's how others look at yours. They're looking to see how you've been captured. They're not out to criticize your crooked tooth or deep set laugh lines. Er, I mean LAF Lines... Especially not your parents, spouse, children or siblings. They just want great shots of you that capture you in your now.
Trust your photographer to capture you in the most flattering lights and angles. Their education and experiences lead them to make great choices to best suit you. I often hear "I'll call you when I lose 20 pounds." Guess what? Your kids don't care about that. When they grow up and out (and they will!) they'll be glad to have great captures with you in them.
I threw myself into my clients' shoes to make sure I wasn't asking the impossible. I'm thrilled that I have nice photos of me at 40. Heck, I make my kids pose for me every year for their "birthday photos." I think we should continue this tradition into adulthood! :)
My tag line is "Capturing the Love" for a reason. It's something I look to do, no matter where I am. And, as unfamiliar as the Bar Mitzvah ceremony was to me, I knew where to look to find the love. The ceremony was beautiful. I couldn't use a flash, so I was nervous about not having enough light. But I was able to hit the key moments throughout the ceremony.
Then, for the reception- hello Harry Potter! The Country Club of Jackson was decked out in well executed Harry Potter themed decorations. The party was kid-centric. And I wished to be 13 again! The kids had a blast playing games, dancing and loading up on sweets from Honeydukes.
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If we haven't met yet, my name is pronounced Lydia From-o. I know, I've got all kinds of extra letters in my spelling. I've been doing this photography thing for a while now, over six years. It's been such a cool journey. I've gotten to experience and witness many great moments in people's lives. I've met some incredible people. And I've realized how much of this life's journey is universal.
When I was 14 I started reading Leo Buscaglia. He's all about Love. Loving ourselves. Loving each other. Being kind and accepting. And I really think he shaped the way I see the world.
Upon meeting so many of my clients, I am immediately told their insecurities. They ask that I digitally shave off some poundage, a bump in their nose or only photograph them from one side. And I often laugh. Because I don't see these "issues." I see the whole person. I see a mom doing a brilliant job raising her kids. Or a talent that we all admire from the audience.
We postpone and neglect to be in photos because we think we are the sum total of our insecurities. But the truth is, nobody in the world sees us the way we see ourselves. Grandma would love a mantle full of photos of the people she loves. She doesn't care who has gained 10 pounds, or 20. Or 50.
My style of photography is very natural. It's just us and the camera. And we talk. And we forget about the fact that we're taking pictures. My past clients have walked away enjoying the experience. And then being happy with the results. I won't show you a photo that I don't think you look good in. It does take a leap of faith to believe your photographer. To trust that she will showcase you in the most perfect light. I know that is part of the process. I will take good care of you.
When you're ready, call me. We'll take some photos. We'll "Capture the Love" and make some memories in the process.
Until then, be good to yourself.
lidija A. Fremeau
LAF Lines Photography
This baby girl was announced to us as we were graduating from St. Mary's College. So, to me, it's fitting that that's where this senior aspires to attend! She'll be attending forensics camp at SMC soon and is planning to create her own major upon her arrival in South Bend. While her sister and I have been busy raising our own babies, she has grown into a fine young woman. It was my honor to photograph her.
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This senior begins touring collegiate campuses next week and I can't wait to find out where he'll land.
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Keeping your photographer informed is the best thing you can do to ensure a smooth photo session. ESPECIALLY in a long shoot, such as a wedding, with many key players. Your photographer should ask you for this sort of information. In case she doesn't, be sure to make a point of telling her these three key points:
1. FRIEND OR FOE: To avoid any uncomfortable moments, let your photographer know the marital statuses and friendly-status of parents and in-laws. Inform her of who you suspect might give the photographer a hard time, ahead of time. The more your photographer knows, the more she can do to try and prevent any awkward moments in posing.
2. SPECIAL PEOPLE/THINGS: If there are significant people that you want photographed at your event, let your photographer know who they are, and how they are special. Likewise, if your decorations were made by Aunt Bev, or the wine glasses belonged to mom, tell your photographer so that these significant items can get their due photo.
3. TIMELINE: Keep your photographer abreast of any changes in the schedule of events. If you want certain moments captured, the photographer has to know they're happening and when. Your photographer might use the timeline provided to choose an appropriate time to use the bathroom. If something changes, it could really create a moment lost.
In order for your photos to reflect you best, keep your photographer informed. An experienced professional won't leak any surprises and will know how to handle your toughest guest. When you've planned a special day for months, guide your photographer to showcase the love and thoughtfulness of the day!
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The day was full of emotion. And love. And most of all, JOY! After mass he met with family groups and offered a special blessing. Eventually he was able to enjoy a wonderful reception where many remained to share a delicious meal. The day felt much like a wedding and reception. And whereas a couple leaves a wedding to enjoy a honeymoon, Father Lukas is already off to work.
I believe my parents are the cutest couple in the world. I always have. And when I saw my mom in her dress, I gasped. Her beauty shined. My father looked so dapper in his suit. It was my honor to snap photos for them to have and to share.
I've seen photos of this morning's subject on social media through a mutual "friend." I've often thought that I wish she lived closer and that I'd love to snap her up! Well, she came to visit and said mutual friend thought to have me out to ClarkLake Beach & Boat Club to do just that!
This little nugget was adorable, engaging and a pleasure to photograph. Though tempted by the lake and the playground, she posed for a few photos and then we released her to the beach!
I remember having to learn how to write a bibliography in high school. We had to include just the right order of name, date, book with the correct punctuation in between. I kept a cheat sheet for years because I could never keep it straight.
It is really quite simple to give photo credit for your fantastic images! Either: don't crop out the logo of the proofs when posted. Or mention who your fabulous photographer was! It is a small and courteous act that makes a photographer feel so good! (And in some cases will keep them from pushing legal action!)
Shout out of love to some of my clients who insist on including LAF Lines Photography in their credits!
From Rima Designs:
From Amy Lynn Smith: (Even when Amy is featured on other sites- she takes me with her!)
From Kellogg and Latz Dentistry:
Picture it: Interlochen Arts Camp, 1992. A girl in cabin 25 unknowingly used conditioner instead of shampoo for 8 weeks. She wore the same flannel shirt every day. (Tied around her waist if it was warm out, otherwise over her uniform shirt.) (So how dirty was it, really?) She wore electric blue Doc Martens with her light blue uniform socks. She was studying piano, acting, singing and photography. Otherwise described as a "Main Camp Major." To her there were too many interesting things to learn about to pick only one concentration.
She thought photographers were the coolest. Her friend Jaime was also studying photography, but at a more advanced level. He was so cool. The way he saw the world was so interesting to the girl.
The assignment: Portraits. The student asked her cabin mate, Mandy to pose for her. But not really pose for her. (Above) was the result. The student had to process the photo in the dark room. Because it was taken on film. It was so much to learn in 8 weeks.
Fast forward to today. I tell this story because recently a few people have talked about their dreams of pursuing photography as a career. And I'm going to be honest: it wasn't a dream of mine. I never wanted to own my own business. It looked too confusing and complicated. I wanted to wash car windows at a gas station. Or be a waitress. (I came so close, being a hostess at Smokehouse 52) And a job in photography? Yea! Right! I never thought I was good enough. Or cool enough.
Many people encouraged me along the way to "do something" with my photography. I tell my clients all the time that I see them differently than they see themselves. They are way too hard on themselves. The same can be said for talent. I didn't always see what was so special about my photos. Enough people said that I had something unique. And here I am. I was booking my first jobs before I even hung out my shingle.
After six years of LAF Lines Photography, I do believe that I am in the right place. With my camera I have met VPOTUS Joe Biden and Jill Biden. (Don't know who they are? Google them.) I have travelled across the country by the request of people who believe in me. My photos hang in many homes and fill many albums. I have met so many interesting people, and shown them how beautiful they truly are.
Thanks to those who believed in me before I knew to. Thanks for allowing me to live a dream I was too afraid to have.
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He's made impact. He'll do that wherever he goes. Not that I needed to be convinced of anything, because, who am I? But I really truly saw that he's on the right path, and that he'll do amazing things with his life and dedication as a Jesuit Priest.
I spent the rest of the day in Berkeley with a friend (See next blog post). But now, days later, I miss the family and their explorer spirit! I love to make beautiful photos of ordinary moments, and with this family, in this setting, it was a task easily accomplished.
The kids slept all the way home to Tiburon. After naps, just a few of us walked a trail that led to the most incredible views of the Bay Area. The girls were very familiar with the path, and were comfortable navigating their way down and back up the mountain. It was inspiring to note that this was their childhood story, and these amazing places, the backdrop.
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The opportunities this family has in California are completely different than what we have here in Jackson. Where they hike, the organic foods offered etc. all make for a very interesting study in how other cities live. Let's begin with our first evening together. On Saturday the kids met me at the ferry from San Francisco and we had a chance to hang out. I got to meet the baby and take the mobile ones to fly kites. It made for an incredible end-of-day.
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I dug out the archives today, and after criticizing myself, and telling myself how I would do these images differently now, I enjoyed playing with them. Very delayed, yet here is a peek at those portraits. What story does each image tell? There are no right or wrong answers.
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Not only was it fun to photograph the adult Michael- he was the first to be photographed in the new LAF Lines Photography headquarters! I had just arranged a backdrop area before his appointment was scheduled. It worked out fabulously and I dig the results. I do believe this space is going to work brilliantly for head shots for all reasons!
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Caroline sent me a draft of her poems. As I read them I tried to imagine which photos in my portfolio would suit her words. We got together. We had so many great moments of truly "getting" each other. I pulled out photos that she got excited about. She described a concept that I got excited about. What makes this project unique is that {most of} the photos and the words existed separate of each other for a while. And now, it seems, they truly belong together.
Please celebrate with Caroline and I as we finally get to share years worth of work in one handy little 8x8 book.
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I want to empower women to feel great as they are RIGHT NOW. These sessions are whatever you want to make of them. Need new profile photos? Want to try something a little more daring? Thinking of a special gift for your Valentine? These can be a personal journey or a celebration with friends. Let me know what you're thinking, and we'll make it happen. Life is swift, let's take the time to document the journey.
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Owning a business is a challenge and a joy. I don't have a product that everyone needs. And I didn't invent anything unique. I am one of many photographers in Jackson, in Michigan. What fills my heart with an enthusiastic joy is that {you} (my reader, my client, my friend) believe in me enough to support me with bookings, orders, opportunities and encouragement. The fact that my business is celebrating six years is nothing to ignore. I did not get here by myself. So, thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing with me and believing in me and making LAF Lines part of your life's experience! It is never forgotten.
A fave moment of mine, was seeing a portrait of Dad, and noticing the similarities between him and the baby! I think Baby thought he was looking into a mirror, checking out that handsome fellow!
It is great fun for me to photograph people with personal items (or in this case, personal property) that has great significance to them. It kind of wraps the subjects in a blanket of cozy and the photos feel like home.
I don't like to repeat myself for shoots, I don't want to end up a one trick wonder. I like to give each senior his/her own experience. But I have to admit, I have favorite spots. And the lane at Ella Sharp Park is one of them. The tree line lends itself perfectly to add a fantastic aesthetic to any portrait. I repeat it for my clients, because the majesty of the trees cannot be denied. We had to wait for the soccer crews to clear out, and then had our moment!
A few years ago I journaled that I wish I had a job that I had to travel for. As I work for myself, I realized that I needed to make such things happen. This became a personal goal as much as a professional goal. I married young and hadn't had very much opportunity for traveling alone. So, I started locally and small. I spent a night in Ann Arbor and then Detroit. Then I went a little further to Cleveland. In each of these cities I brought cameras and maps and ventured out to photograph and hope to see something that others had overlooked.
This personal preparation paid off when a client asked if I would come to San Francisco to photograph his family in 2013. I was ready.
This year I chose Chicago. I was able to line up a couple of portrait shoots along the way. I have friends in Chicago- and some of us met up for supper Saturday night. During that meal, my trip was questioned- was it business? What was I going to do? I answered that I see these trips as personal and professional retreats. I go and see and do- and think about my craft and challenge myself to do more. One of my friend's husbands is an architect. He showed me some (great) photos on his phone and asked if I would like to visit these places.
Ummmm.... YES! Thank you to Kenneth DeMuth of Pappageorge Haymes Partners. Because of his willingness to show me around, I gained access to two fantastic buildings in the process of renovations. Possibly my favorite moment was standing on the rooftop of the Colony Building which promises to be some fantastic "student" housing when complete next summer. He answered my many questions. It was neat to see how something old and beautiful will become something new and beautiful once more!
This little girl was super shy when I first arrived. But with a few tricks to get her comfortable, we were having a good time in a matter of minutes. This little guy lost one of his teeth the very next day. These are photos for the archives! Just goes to show how quickly we all grow and change. Got to, got to snap them up!
1. Put the kids in the shade. Your prize winning roses might be the best backdrop for your back-to-school photos. But, if those flowers are in the sun in the morning, think of plan B. Most kids wilt, squint and complain in the sun. To snap up better results from them, keep them comfortable. Change your angle if you need to avoid your neighbor's bloomers hanging on the clothes line. Get low or stand over your kids to get rid of unnecessary background.
2. Don't say "smile." During photo sessions I hear parents say to their children, "Don't smile like that." Mostly they are referring to that crooked jaw, squinted eye thing kids do to get the photo taken so they can get back to playing. To grab some natural photos of your kids, talk to them from behind the camera. Ask them who their teachers will be, who they are excited to see, ask about their secret crush... If that isn't working- go for the king daddy of all kid humor: bodily functions. If you surprise your children from behind the lens, they will surprise you with their results.
2. Allow the kids to show their emotions. If your child is apprehensive, afraid or nervous- there's no reason to force a "perfect" photo. Have them give you an action based on how they feel. Let them jump, shout, put their arms up or hide behind their sibling if that's how they feel. Sure, we all hope to capture that perfectly smiling photo, but it's a big day for the kids. Allow their feelings. If you can't get them to smile before the big day, have your camera ready when you pick them up- they will have a whole new set of emotions to offer when they get to see you again!
Whether you're excited or sad to see the kids go back to school this year, I wish you peace and productivity!
Are your kids heading back to school tomorrow? Mine are. And they know- before they are delivered to their school, they will be photographed. I see on social media, that many of us have this tradition. In order to have great results, here are three tips for those early morning photo sessions:
1. Put the kids in the shade. Your prize winning roses might be the best backdrop for your back-to-school photos. But, if those flowers are in the sun in the morning, think of plan B. Most kids wilt, squint and complain in the sun. To snap up better results from them, keep them comfortable. Change your angle if you need to avoid your neighbor's bloomers hanging on the clothes line. Get low or stand over your kids to get rid of unnecessary background.
2. Don't say "smile." During photo sessions I hear parents say to their children, "Don't smile like that." Mostly they are referring to that crooked jaw, squinted eye thing kids do to get the photo taken so they can get back to playing. To grab some natural photos of your kids, talk to them from behind the camera. Ask them who their teachers will be, who they are excited to see, ask about their secret crush... If that isn't working- go for the king daddy of all kid humor: bodily functions. If you surprise your children from behind the lens, they will surprise you with their results.
2. Allow the kids to show their emotions. If your child is apprehensive, afraid or nervous- there's no reason to force a "perfect" photo. Have them give you an action based on how they feel. Let them jump, shout, put their arms up or hide behind their sibling if that's how they feel. Sure, we all hope to capture that perfectly smiling photo, but it's a big day for the kids. Allow their feelings. If you can't get them to smile before the big day, have your camera ready when you pick them up- they will have a whole new set of emotions to offer when they get to see you again!
If you're excited or sad to see the kids go back to school this year, I wish you peace and productivity!
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So, as much as we have been working and playing this week, surrounded by sounds of laughter, music and fun- it was great to take a break and celebrate this pair as they begin their lives officially together!
I tried to capture the essence of them as a young and playful couple, as opposed to too many posed portraits. Enjoy each other! Enjoy being young and in love.
What better way to commemorate than with family photos on the grounds of the place so dear to his heart?! The kids grew up attending camps here. His wife has worried, worked and enjoyed by association. There has been undoubtedly much sweat equity put into the place by this family.
We may never consider who is up at night worrying about the places we hold dear. Many big thanks to this family for their loyalty to Dainava and all they have done to keep it a treasured place for so many!
Our meeting time was 1:00. And who was shopping for shorts for the boys at noon? Yea, me. I honestly hadn't given much thought about WHERE to have our portraits taken. I just knew I wanted to be downtown. While we were getting ready and I stole a few minutes to primp (after their shoot), it occurred to me, that maybe we should do just a few photos in LAF Lines studio. I mean, it's such an important space for me, so naturally, I wanted to commemorate it with some snaps. Then we hit the Ave.
Jen was so great with my boys, and with me. I don't love having my photo taken, but I recognize that when someone is thoughtful and considerate on the other side of the camera, it makes it all okay. I suspect that after her baby is born, her phone will be ringing off the hook for portraits! Thank you, Jen Brazys Photography!
I love people. I took a degree in Social Work because (wait for it)... I wanted to help people. But I never went into my field. I went into my parent's business instead. I learned a lot- and fast. Those weren't the happiest years of my life because their business had little room for creativity. I worked at my Alma Mater in the Alumnae Relations department, and that was super cool. I worked there until I had my first son. I stayed home with my kids, and now I work when they are in school or I can have their dad or my in-laws hang out with them. (My in-laws are so great! I know not everyone can say that, I am proud to be able to claim them as good people!)
So, I started LAF Lines in 2008 because enough people told me that I had something special behind the lens. Which is NUTS! Because I always thought of photographers as the coolest people EVER. And there's NO WAY I fit that ideal. When I decided to start this business, my husband and I sat on the couch in the basement and tried to think of clever names. I didn't want to be lidija A. Fremeau Photography, because unless you know me already, that doesn't quite indicate what I do. LAF (my initials) Lines totally captures my life philosophy and what I aim to snap up during our shoots.
There are two major branches on the LAF Lines tree. The trunk and major branch is the portrait work that I do. I love to photograph people. I fall in love a little at every shoot. I try to find unique ways of showcasing people once I get to know them for a few minutes. We are all unique- and I want your portraits to reflect that. How do you love? I bet you don't even know that you show your love in the slightest of moments. I dig capturing those. I absolutely try to get that "traditional" photo when everyone is looking and smiling perfectly- but I find that love lies in the "imperfect" photo.
The other branch of the LAF Lines tree is my still-life work. I call this my hobby photography, because it is funded by the portrait work. I love to take photographs of the common, ordinary or overlooked and show them in a new way. I seek out the elements of design, or compose my photos to maximize those elements.
So, in a nutshell, this is who I am, and what LAF Lines is. I am a life lover and go-getter. I am passionate about everything I do, or I won't do it. If you know me from one branch, swing over and check out my other branch!
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This past year, my senior rep at J-High helped spread the word about me. Tonight he graduates as a J-High Valedictorian! Congrats, Connor. As part of his graduation day, his mom had me snap up a few photos of him and his friends dressed for their big night!
There was much happiness and excitement as they made sure their medals were on the correct side of their gowns. I hope the ones giving speeches tonight gain the crowd's approval and that their next adventures lead to much fulfillment in this life. Congratulations class of 2014!
The senior I was to photograph, however, was only having her portraits taken per the request of her parents. She wasn't too excited about it at all. I asked her about a quarter of the way through, "On a scale of one to ten- ten being torture and one being heaven- how bad is this?" She replied with a hearty five. We chatted and she went with the flow. We had her dad help hold up a screen for me- and laughed as he nearly blew away. (It was windy.) At the end of the shoot, I asked her again how bad it was, and she generously gave me a "three." That meant everything to me! :)
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Liz is also the wedding photographer I assisted for two years. It was an honor to snap a few photos of my mentor. She taught me invaluable lessons on how to treat clients and maintain a level of professionalism and caring in everything I do. Thanks, Liz.
There are three elements a professional photographer will balance. Consider it a recipe: you need equal parts of each to consider your choice a success.
The experience: During the shoot your photographer should have you relaxed and the kids engaged. She should be patient and considerate. She should also be professional and keep her own footprint at your event to a minimum.
The business: Your proofs and products should be delivered when and how promised.
The product: The skill and knowledge of the photographer should be reflected in stylish, well-composed images.
Once you've got some names of photographers and you're narrowing your choices, think about these next four points.
#1- Look online. When friends give you recommendations, spend a few minutes looking through a photographer's website. Don't expect a studio photographer to be able to handle an outdoor gig and vice versa, unless they showcase that fluidity. Once you find a photographer whose style matches the desired look, look closer: Do you like what the photographer is saying in the text portions of their site? Is the site active with recent blog posts?
#2- Consider pricing. The photographer should give you pricing options up front. Does their menu offer what you want at the end of your experience? Feel welcome to ask specifically for pricing on a particular item, even if isn't on their menu. Many photographers have access to more products that aren't the "top" sellers. Some photographers will not stray from their selected products. It's good to know that up front. Likewise, while engaging with your photographer, note response times and courtesy.
#3- Depending on the size of your investment, interview the photographer. If you're planning to spend thousands of dollars, absolutely meet your photographer face to face. If you're going to spend a few hours on a very significant day with this person, be sure you click. If you're having family portraits for an hour, you might not wish to spend more time on the project, but you can make phone calls to assess the photographer's response to your ideas and suggestions. Does the photographer make you feel comfortable?
#4- Once you're in the process of locking-in with a photographer, review documents provided. What are your photographer's expectations of you? What can you expect from your photographer? When will proofs become available? How many proofs will there be? Will they be retouched? What protections does the photographer grant you? How does the photographer protect herself?
On photo day, trust your photographer to make you look good. Hopefully you're relaxed and enjoying the process, even if Timmy is chewing his shoe. Allow your photographer to orchestrate the session within the specified parameters. Each photographer has their own style and experience. The changing variable at every shoot is the subject. So, understand that your photog has a general idea of how things should work, and believe in that process.
I hope that by charting out a few key points in what to look for, your research pays off and experience with a photographer is painless and your results priceless.
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Q: So, why hire a photographer?
A: Quality. A skilled photographer will present images of you and yours that are not blurry, with a distracting background, or with any number of other home-done faux pas. The lighting, angle and depth of field will be artful and creative.
A: Vantage. A photographer outside of the family means that the ENTIRE family can be in the photo. And moving beyond arm's reach means creatively incorporating the location. Some photos tell a story close up, some from farther away.
A: View. You look to the world different than you think you do. Allowing a third party to capture you in action, surrounded by home and/or loved ones is an opportunity to make memorable photos that truly represent who you are. A "duck face" shot while seat belted in the car doesn't truly represent who you are: unless you've had such work done and are a professional driver? ;)
Having professional photos done these days doesn't have to mean dragging the whole family into a tight studio. Many photographers will come to you. Turn the cell-cam off, use the cell phone for its intended purpose and book a session today! 517.917.4302
]]>I recently read an article about a photographer big among celebrities. She talked about how she became a photographer, but how she never learned all the equipment. She said she always hired the necessary crew based on what she was working on. Her focus remained on relationship building and what she was good at. I second that notion! I am every grateful to Mark for helping me remain calm and my subjects well lit. And I am grateful to Lumen for the opportunity! What a fun night!
Here are a couple more from their shoot that I dig showing very different sides of this group.
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As I am the mother to boys, I don't know that I would have had the opportunity I got last night, if it weren't for my photography thing. Fabulous! The coordinators of this Daddy Daughter Dance were busy running about after spending months painting decorations. They needed a photographer to snap some photos of their daughters and their husbands. First of all, the decorations were so great- and I fret that by the time the guests arrived, the gym was in the dark. At least I got to see them and gush! They were so great! I was especially a fan of the candy buffet the girls got to visit to fill their goodie bags.
I overheard a father in the crowd telling his daughter, "Let me lead." And it made me smile and remember my father trying to teach me to dance. (I still lead, I'm not a good follower.) Girls were dressed up and twirling in their dresses. More than just for the gig, I was glad I got to step into a world that isn't mine on a daily basis.
I am so excited for this family to expand! They are expecting a girl, and I was so busy chasing down the soon-to-be-big-brother that I forgot to recommend Lidija as a name. ;)
When people find out I am a photographer, they typically ask if I have a studio space. I have always answered like an awkward 30-something who still lives in my parents' basement, "No, I work out of my home." For five years, this has worked brilliantly for LAF Lines. LAF Lines has officially outgrown the generous in-home office space, which was the nudge I needed: LAF Lines is moving on up!
Today I signed a lease to hang my shingle in the fabulous Blake Building in downtown Jackson. I have always been a big fan of downtown and I am supremely excited to have a home there now for my business to continue to grow. I looked at renting a space about a year ago, but it didn't feel right. I love the character of the Blake, so I felt that my first office should be there... I emailed the building owner and asked to see what was available again this year, and it was a perfect match.
The best part about my new office is that I will have a space to photograph individuals and small groups in my natural light, environmental style. I have fabulous windows which let in ample light and I won't have to change my methodology to offer clients an indoor space. I am staying true to the brand, but with some seriously awesome digs. Rima Designs is helping me pull the space together and I am so eager to make it my own.
I should be all settled in before the "busy season" hits. I have visions of meeting clients in my new space or easily hitting the street to grab a cup of coffee or lunch with friends. This will change the way I live my life. It should mean fewer nights of working at 10pm, but hours during the day should become more productive and focused with no distractions of laundry or dishes. I feel all grown up now. With a "real" job.
Thank you for being part of my journey.
See you at the Blake!
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Yesterday I received a call from a friend who asked if I am equipped to handle backdrop-"corporate" head shots. I had to say no. So, I probably turned down a nice paying job, but it isn't in my modus operandi. These environmental portraits of Amy are so much more personal than anything we could do in front of a grey backdrop. Her clients, followers and friends can get a little glimpse of who she really is. She was on her home-court and I used that to my advantage, getting Amy to relax and just enjoy the process.
Amy can proudly use these images on any of her platforms. They express her casual, yet professional demeanor and even a bit of her playful side. If you're in the need of some professional portraits for your media platforms, don't hesitate to get in touch. We'll have fun and get great results.
My first attempt, a light table confounded me. I think i need some kind of fancy white paper to give myself an eternity background. I definitely need to practice with this some more and figure it out. I haven't a clue what I would use it for, but I will keep playing with it.
The light box seemed super cool to create. But even still, I need more practice. As a natural light photographer, I find all this extra equipment superfluous. But if I could master the results, I am sure I would see it otherwise.
Yesterday my father was to accompany me on a couple of Pure Detroit tours of some fabulous buildings. Our first one was at 11:00 at the Guardian Building. As we set out to drive into the City, we were met with white out conditions. We tried to get home, but that took longer than it should have because we had no clue where we were- we couldn't see anything. We turned on my GPS and she calmly and effectively guided us home.
We had some time at my parents' house to spend until the 1:00 Fisher Building tour. So, I told them about my project. I told them how passionately I felt about it. I told them that the mannequin deserved the dignity of a name. I told my father I had one in mind. It was a family member's name. He looked at me and knowingly said, "Stella." Yup. Stella.
My grandmother's name was Stase (Stacy in English) but she always called herself Stella. This project doesn't remind me of my grandmother. It has nothing to do with her at all. But the name, Stella, seems so perfect.
We ventured out again for the Fisher Building tour and this time were successful in our commute. We had some adventures in finding a parking spot, but we got into the majestic building and I was excited for the tour. And then I saw this:
It just had to be this way. So, my lovely, fragile, smelly and almost forgotten muse now has a name. Stella.
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We visited McCourtie Park which was a hangout of "Dad's" as a kid. He had his senior portraits taken here. It was my pleasure to capture them in frozen poses as we wandered a beautiful and snowy park. We had some laughs and some frozen toes, but all in all, I am so glad we got out there today!
I've come to realize in taking portraits, that i adore to document life as it is, rather than how we want to show people it is. You know that feeling when you see a photo of a family, everyone is matching, smiling, heads tilted and you get a pang of jealousy that your life is never that picture perfect? Yea, those moments are few and far between. Again, I prefer to show the joy, and the love of a family. The sneak peeks I am showing here might not be those models of perfection, but in the joy captured, perfection lies within.
I was happy to catch up with these growing kids and their parents. It's only been a few months since our last photo opp, but when time is measured against the growth of a child, it feels amazing at how time can change us all.
I often say that if you had told me 7 years ago that I would be a photographer by trade, I would have laughed myself silly. First of all, my parents have always owned a business. I have been witness to the difficulties of self reliance, and I do believe at one point in my life I swore off owning my own business. Second, I always thought photographers were the coolest cats in town. Never would I have thought that I could be one someday.
But everything happened so naturally. Little by little LAF Lines became a brand. People started to associate me with cameras and photos. And here I am today.
Once, when struggling emotionally my husband suggested, "Take that energy and do something photographically with it." I kind of knew what he meant, but something was more obvious to him than it was to me: Behind the glass is my happy place. Processing photos at my desk transports me to a world of beauty and love that exists in reality, but isn't as easy to see in full motion.
I have learned so much about myself on this journey. I have also learned so much about humanity. Thank you for letting me into your lives to capture moments of pure love, absolute silly and the most tender of times. Thank you for hiring me, encouraging me, buying a still life photo for your walls, giving a LAF Lines gift certificate for someone or "liking" a status on Facebook. All of this inspires me to continue moving forward.
I am a one woman operation. But it would be absurd of me not to recognize that there are hundreds of you that keep me going. I am ever grateful for the opportunities you have offered me. You do have impact in the world. LAF Lines is an example of your kindness, consideration and giving.
Thank you.
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We were posed, but the kids did their own thing. Especially in the black and white photo (see below). They weren't supposed to be in the photo, technically. They were doing their own thing- so, i zoomed out and just had to add them into the mix. It tells the story of what is going on in this family's world. It's an exciting time for this family. And i'm glad i got to snap up a few photos to commemorate this phase. :)
I told this morning's client not to worry, that's my job. Let the kids enjoy, explore and eventually, we'll work toward that Christmas card worthy photo. Of course, i find so much wonder in the non-camera ready moments, when parents are doing what they do: loving, adoring and teaching. Yet, i suspect that those aren't the photos that will make it in the holiday newsletter. So, I keep snapping. This family got the best of both worlds. We were able to get (close enough) everyone looking and we caught some tender moments. I stand by my theory, if the love spills out, the photos will be great, regardless of who is looking at the camera.
We sat in awe as the competitors from the Michigan High School Rodeo Association rode horses, roped and lassoed livestock and even rode on bucking horses and bulls. Bravo to the bull fighters (FKA clowns) who did what they had to do to distract the raging bulls once their riders came off. We saw a little blood and a few helmets get knocked off. And here i thought football was a dangerous sport...
It was an afternoon i shall always remember. And i would even venture to say i would return to Frontier Days and look into seeing some more rodeos. My camera bag doesn't have a far reaching lens, but i was excited with what i was able to capture to show those who were not there with us.
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["Itchy" is a super cute name for a grandma. Until she is in the store, calling out in public for "IIIIIITCHY!" ... or so i hear.] :)
The thing is, as much as he may have been tortured, he did a great job going with the flow. A few times i actually thought he might have been having fun. i hope his mom will be pleased with the nice series of photos she will have to remember his senior year by. He did good. :)
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Ultimately, we had many laughs. If you've never met me, i am not too serious of a person. (photography aside)
After hanging about the Arts Armory Village Campus, we zipped over to Ella Sharp Park for a few photos to capture the magnificent lane of trees.
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i told this morning's parents, that if we release our expectations of what these photos should look like, we'll all be pleased. i have to say, i absolutely love the results. Little brother is turning two, hence his two balloons.
The new parents have realized that even though they have a great camera, they cannot all three be in the same photo at the same time. That's where i can help. Here are some results. :)
Pro Tip: How do you make a second/third grade girl smile naturally? Ask her if she has a crush on anyone. :)
As i warn my clients, the more people in a photo, the more of a challenge it becomes. Especially when there is a one-year-old in the crowd. :)
Yesterday morning I met up with these lovelies at McCourtie Park. I have been photographing these girls "forever." The older one was one of my models when I was just getting started and wanted to practice. The younger one I have photographed since the womb. Now they are reading books and growing into smart little ladies.
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We met up in early May for a quick get-to-know-you session, and he was a super sport. I made the process as easy as possible for him, and we had a good time. The trick is, the photos need to reflect who Connor is. Not how I want him to be/look. It's this low-key approach that my clients appreciate. Especially the ones who don't like having their photo taken.
i am not a hunter. i don't own a single gun. But apparently, i'm a good shot! :) (Must be all my camera aiming) The gentlemen of the team took a break from their qualifications to show myself and three others from a Spring Arbor University affiliation some of the weapons they are trained to use. (Hence my sore left arm- those things are HEAVY!)
Detective Sergio Garcia took me under his wing and showed me how to handle a Sig 226, Mp5 and Colt 223. WOW! Thankfully Tom Fiero grabbed my camera and took some photos so i can have this day documented!
Sergeant Tommy Schuette challenged us to shoot a 308 sniper rifle and hit a small circular target. Um. That wasn't easy. But i am proud to say i did not split open my eyebrow and my bullet made it within the target.
Many big thanks to Lieutenant Elmer Hitt for offering up this opportunity to a few lucky civilians. As much as my time with the SRT revolved around guns, it was a very life affirming event. It was an honor to peek into a world i know very little about. i am grateful to the team for letting me participate today.
Det. Garcia challenged me to hit the staple. (Above) i came close!
Aiming this rifle was not at all easy. (Above) BUT i hit the target and was so happy! (Below)
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As an adult, i am seldom found without music playing. i am quite interested in musicality and quality lyrics in tandem. Within the last couple years i discovered the band Blue October. I instantly found the perfect companions for running, driving, singing along, lounging and sharing. The more i dug into their catalogue, the more levels of intrigue i discovered. Here was a songwriter telling his stories without glossing over the gory details. He exposed himself and his troubles, and his chronology of music is his autobiography. I have been a captivated fan since my discovery.
Fast forward to last night. Justin Furstenfeld, the lead singer of Blue October is on tour promoting his book "Crazy Making." A friend and i caught the show at The Ark in Ann Arbor. Now, here is where this blog ties into my photography. i called ahead to find out what the camera rules for The Ark are. I WAS MISINFORMED. i thought i was well within the rules bringing a DSLR with me. So, i was super happy going into the show, knowing i could snap a few pics of my fave musician.
At the end of the night, i waited in line to get Justin's autograph in my book. (i don't entirely understand the purpose of autographs- but we can discuss that over coffee sometime.) (It would have been nice just to have the chance to meet him and thank him for what he does without seemingly asking for even more from him.)
Onward! Just before it was my turn to meet Justin, an Ark staffer asked me how i got in with my camera. i was immediately guilty, and said, "i called today and was told it was okay to bring any camera." He replied, "That's not my policy." BUSTED! i was so rattled, because here i thought i had done the right thing by asking what the rules were (and if i had been told no removable lenses, trust me! i would have complied. i'm not in the business of giving photographers a bad rap.) and i still broke the rules. He smiled and said, "Well, i hope you got some nice photos."
Here are a few.
I arrived at Hill Top Manor ahead of schedule to figure out the lay of the land. What an incredible venue! This was their first non-family wedding on the property, and it lended itself beautifully for the occasion. The wedding party was dressed in their finery and cowboy boots! It was a great mix of classic and country. Thanks to the bride and groom for having me photograph their special day! I feel like I captured the moments and will have beautiful images to present to them. But whew! Hats off to wedding photographers from little ole LAF Lines.
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]]>When I look at the photos, I can hear the children calling my name to get my attention. They have such sweet voices and they speak with such enthusiasm. The photos in any other platform won't convey the kindness, generosity and faith the parents have in a photographer from mid-Michigan in the beginning chapters of her career.
I hope that what is universally seen and understood in this series is a family with great love for one another. Curiosity in their environment and adapting to a changing culture in California. Zest for life and living. Appreciation for their home and surroundings.
The lessons I have learned from these two trips go beyond the lens. What I saw was converted through the lens into little drops, like moisture on a heavily foggy morning. It was pulled through the camera and deposited into my heart and mind. You see, my camera is a tool. An apparatus I look through to see the world. But I am not simply seeing what is there, I am taking in the lessons my subjects have to offer.
It is with a grateful heart I present the last few sneak peeks from my trip to Tiburon.
The staff at Bella Notte Ristorante were most accommodating and allowed us the run of the building to take several different family photos. Congratulations to the new Mr. and Mrs. :)
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Today I reported for duty. We spent part of our day touring the Presidio, and checking out different vistas. At sunset we climbed (in a vehicle) to a high vantage point to take in the overwhelmingly incredible view. Considering I absolutely love what I do, today was a first-in-a-lifetime blend of business with dreams coming true pleasure. We have more places to go and sights to see tomorrow. Stay tuned!
I wandered, admired and listened to all kinds of languages, which thrilled me so. I think I have a little wind/sun burn on my face. It felt so good to spend so much time outdoors today. I have big plans tomorrow to hit the usual iconic scenes. Can you guess where I was today?
i might always refer to my children as my babies. And when i talk about the weight i need to lose, i sometimes say, "Well, i did just have a baby." Don't let me fool you. The last time i gave birth was 8 years ago. So, i use the term "babies" loosely. And that post-pregnancy weight loss... well, let's just say i'm holding onto that excuse until he's 40. ;)
My oldest son isn't a fan of having his photo taken. This one likes to dress up and will pose for me- which is fun. But he also acts silly, just at the moment i think i have the coolest shot. i thought i would mix business with pleasure this morning and TREAT him to one of his fave local haunts, the Jackson Coffee Company. After he enjoyed his mint hot cocoa and glazed honey bun, he was all for having his photo taken. (Please note, my son handled his own wardrobe.)
The Jax Coffee Co. has a great vibe. i have used it as a backdrop for other shoots and really appreciate it, especially in cold winter months. Just goes to show, the blustery winter weather doesn't have to interfere when photos simply must get done!
